In today's world we usually tend to ignore some facts of our highly protective society mentality , according to which : Teenagers shouldn't be allowed to do things according to their own will, parents should 24/7 keep a check on them, etc etc. Teenage is a period of changes in the life of an individual both mentally and physically, in this period they experience negative as well as positive aspects of almost everything. Teenager's are usually seen frustated about everything. Mood swings, talking harshly, feeling inserure , infactuation, are some of the common traits of teenagers. But ever asked yourself? '' What is the reason behind these types of behaivours? '' The answer to this question is ''changes that occur inside them'' mentally and physically. If not treated with care, an individual may even go astray. Parent's play an important role in shaping the mind of a teenager, they help their child to learn and understand the way nature works, the way people react in certain situations. But in most of the cases parents fail to understand their child mindset and needs and try to put restrictions on their child which results in child`s conflicting behaviour, the child feel pressurized and hence end up feeling insecure and a sense of hatred towards his/her own parent. Such situations can be avoided by certain measures : Parents should try to understand the needs of his/her child, also the child should try not to exaggerate small things into big issues. Putting little restrictions on child is fine but not giving child his freedom to speak up can create furthur problems. Also, communicating with child about his/her feeling , asking about their needs, how they like to be treated, what are their sunday plans etc, can be a help in getting closer to them and this creates a sense of security in the minds of child, they feel protected and loved.
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